A few days ago I had a really great conversation with my dad.

We talked about everything. Our dreams. Our ambitions. Our perspectives. Eventually we got on the subject of church and ministry.

In Ukrainian, pastors, deacons and preachers are called "slyzhutelya," meaning "those who serve." Well, it got me thinking.

What does serving really mean?

When we put on our best suit and tie and preach in front of a congregation, is that serving? When we do our hair and make-up and sing in the choir or worship group, is that serving?

It seems all too easy. The fact of the matter is these things are actually profitable for us. We are often praised for our great voice, our preaching and teaching skills, and our good looks. Because we're up on stage where everyone sees us, we also gain recognition and possibly popularity.

But is that what serving is all about?

The Bible gives us several good examples of servanthood. The one that stands out the most is the story of the Good Samaritan. Unlike the other travelers on the road to Jericho, the Samaritan saw the need of the wounded man and filled it. It's that simple.

The Samaritan did what was necessary and was not afraid to get down and dirty. In fact, he gave the beat-up dude superior treatment and even payed for his hotel stay!

Did he need to do that? No. Could he have walked by like the rest of the folks? Sure. But, what makes the Samaritan different from the other guys is that he served unconditionally and compassionately. Not because he had to, but because he wanted to.

Serving means helping people without expectation of anything in return. It means being ready to get your hands dirty, and sometimes even the new suit (or dress). It means putting others before yourself. And, not caring if anyone sees you.

Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against preachers or worship leaders. In fact, I value their ministry and their talents. I just think tasks we often call "serving" are actually obligations and responsibilities.

It reminds me of the Michael W. Smith song where the lyrics say, "I give you more than a song. For a song in itself is not what you have required."

So think about it. Do you have what it takes to serve unconditionally?

Are you willing to pull over and change a flat tire for that little old lady on the side of the street (even if you're wearing a crisp white shirt)? Are you willing to hug the homeless kid (who hasn't taken a shower for weeks)? Are you willing to give away your lunch (knowing you'll be hungry for the rest of the day)?

Or is your definition of "serving" something that serves YOU more than anyone else?

Think about it.